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Ex-producer of THE REALLY FUNNY HORNY GOAT INTERNATIONAL SHORT FILM FESTIVAL, playwright, actor, singer, outdoorsman, blogger, amateur photog, observer & bitcher, Beach Boys groupie, Brett Favre fanatic, lover of everything Celtic and forever a member in the Tribe of HAIR. Spent most of my life in the Village of Waterford, a small town just outside of the Milwaukee suburbs. After 12 years in North Hollywood, Bel Air and Culver City, Cali, I moved back to Wisconsin in September 2009. No regrets - of moving to LA OR moving back to WI. Have traveled to Belfast, Ireland, Dayton (OH), Manhattan, Seattle, Cedar Rapids, New York, Miami and Sydney, Australia with my plays. Moved back into the Village of Greendale where I was born. Life is good.

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Showing posts with label Tom Kazar. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Tom Kazar. Show all posts

Thursday, June 4, 2015

2nd Lt. Jacob Kazar! Huzzah!


(left to right:  Jacob K, me and Joseph K. 2007)


Dear Jacob,

Congratulations on your recent graduation from the Air Force Academy!


I remember when you made your decision to attend the academy.
I remember how difficult it was adjusting to the regimen that is the AFA and how over the last four years you rose to the challenges that were presented to you.
I remember when you were a baby, a young boy and a teen and I remember hearing all the stories of you growing up and seeing the gleam in your parents' eyes whenever they mentioned their children. How fortunate I have been to be able to peek into your family's life, watching the four of you grow together.
I remember thinking many times, "What great kids those Kazar boys are."
2nd Lt. Jacob Kazar – I am proud of what you've accomplished and excited for you to begin this new journey. I'm fortunate to know a few academy graduates from other branches of the military…what you've accomplished is quite the feat. Moments in life are fleeting – it really is all about "the journey". Enjoy this journey. I do not share this sentiment lightly – but, you know, if I had had a son, I would be perfectly content if he were just like you. I wish you God's speed while in the service of our country.
Most of all though, remember…that I wish you love.
"Aim High" — "Fly-Fight-Win."
Love,
Uncle Irc







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Friday, December 28, 2012

Kazar men.

 
My best friend from college, Tom - and his sons, Joe, 16 (top) and Jacob, 19. This...is a kick-ass photo.


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Friday, March 16, 2012

TGIF! presents....Level 42's "Something About You"!



Remember this tune? (For Tom)


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Thursday, December 22, 2011

Saturday, January 1, 2011

Holidays@TheKazar's!

It's turned into a tradition that I high-tail it down to Wheaton, IL every Christmas season for dinner with my best friend from college (Tom Kazar), his wife (Denise), the maid of honor in their wedding (Aurora - I was the best man) and Marco & Betsy. Good wine. Great food. Better company. We worked out at the gym. Got to hang out with Jacob and Joseph (the Kazar boys)....always a pleasure. (Left to right): Betsy & Marco, Denise, Aurora and Tom.

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Jackie. Labradoodle. She thinks she's a model BUT she doesn't eat my coffee grounds, right Packy?

(Top to bottom): Denise, Aurora & Betsy.

Dinner is ser-ved!

Prime...what is this called again, Tom? Twas good.

Appetizers.

More appetizers.

Hosts Tom and Denise.

The Kazar Christmas tree.


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Sunday, December 20, 2009

Christmas Trees from Scott & Ask, Kazar's & McCann-Glovers.

Scott & Ash in New Berlin, Wisconsin.

The Kazar's in Wheaton, Illinois.

Donovan & Maria & Grace and my goddaughter's tree in Tujunga, California.


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Friday, November 27, 2009

"Quelli sono le polpette di carne!"

"Now that's a lot a meatballs!" Loose translation. (Thanks, Marisa.) I was privy to a traditional Italian feast Saturday evening. Arrived at our hosts at around 6 p.m. - ate at 9 p.m. Hey, that's the Italian way! Great food. Great people. Americana-style, as my best friend Tom says about the town where he and his family live...Wheaton, IL. And I've have to agree.

Wheaton has 63 churches within its limits, "more churches per capita than any town in America." It's home to Wheaton College, with Reverend Billy Graham connections, who happens to be an alumnus. Brothers James Belushi, John Belushi, director Wes Craven, journalist Bob Woodward, footballer Red Grange, Janet Pilgrim (Playmate centerfold three times in 1955 and 1956), actress Gail O'Grady. footballer Chuck Long and Edwin Hubble (the telescope) all call Wheaton "home".

Spent the weekend before last in Wheaton with Tom, Denise, Jacob and Joseph, my first visit to Wheaton since moving back to Wisconsin from Cali in September. And a busy weekend it was. Click on READ MORE! for a couple more pix.

Here are pix from the Kazar visit in May - same people present this time around (Tom, Denise and Aurora).

The oldest - Jacob, and Tom.

Jacob (orange jersey) playing club lacrosse.

Denise made this lickety split Friday night. Aurora came over and the four of us drank wine and talked.


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Sunday, June 7, 2009

#50 - "Grace Notes from a Bohemian in Wanderlust." The Kazar's in Wheaton.

("Grace Notes from a Bohemian in Wanderlust" is a series of posts about my 3.5 week May vacation in Seattle, Chicago, Milwaukee, Lake Tomawk, WI and Miami. They are in no particular order.)

My best friend, Tom, at his home in Wheaton, IL. Lovely time with the Kazar's - wish I had gotten a picture of his sons, Jacob and Joseph. The boys are becoming quite the lacrosse players. Jacob just got selected all-conference, first team - and defensive MVP - as a sophomore, no less. Click on READ MORE! for additional pics.

We had a nice barbecue the Friday night that I was there. That's Denise, Tom's wife on his right. And Aurora - she was the maid of honor for their wedding and I was the best man. We all went to the University of Wisconsin-Whitewater together.

A man and his barbecue.

Aurora and I.

Tom has been frustrated at the rabbits dining in his newly planted garden. He's on his way to get his pellet gun.

Elmer Fudd on wine. I shot one rabbit at 20 yards with an off-kilter scope. Couldn't hit it again at 10 yards. I'll spare you the rest of the details on our rabbit hunting escapade.


The newest addition to the Kazar family - Jackie. I went with Tom and his family to pick up Jackie on Saturday.



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Tuesday, December 23, 2008

The Kazar's 2008 Christmas Card, Wheaton, IL.

Always creative, those Kazar's. Tom's my best friend from college. He's originally from Cedarburg, WI. We were RA's together and lived off-campus our senior year with Stuey, Saad and Steve in "The Beach Club".

He met Denise at college. They fell in love. I was best man at the wedding. And they had Jacob and Joseph. Merry Christmas, Kazar's. Pokój i miłość.


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Monday, July 28, 2008

Goin' out to eat - "Up North-style".

From Tommy K. during his family vacation up in Minoqua, Wisconsin - the "Lake Geneva" of Up North. Tom took his youngest son, Joseph, on a tour of Lambeau Field in Green Bay, home of the Green Bay Packers. You've heard of them, I'm sure.

It's was 2-for-1 day...tour the facility AND see the circus (sans animals but plenty of clowns) outside training camp.


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Saturday, July 12, 2008

Tragic hero = Favre?

I've been talking to a number of friends and family about the Brett Favre/Green Bay Packer situation and, I have to tell you, emotions are running high. Apparently it's 50/50 in Wisconsin - those siding with Brett or the Packers. Probably closer to 90/10 in favor of Brett in Green Bay. Friends and family are split, though more in favor of Brett. However, it's not a dislike for Favre as a person or player that separates the camps, more related to Brett's handling of the situation (or the Packers' handling of the situation). Oddly enough, my friends who root for other teams are on the Brett side: Donovan & Maria & Baby Grace in Tujunga, Cali (Bronco fans) = Brett. Nick in Cedar Rapids (Cowboys) = Brett. Bill the FedEx guy at work (49ers) = Brett. Robert at work (Chargers) = Brett. John in Philly (Eagles - though I haven't talked to him yet, I know) = Brett. No matter what people's stance on the subject, this is an unbelievable situation we find ourselves in that is reminiscent of the "worlds collide" theory set forth in "Ghostbusters" ('Human sacrifice, dogs and cats living together... mass hysteria!').

So my best friend, Tom Kazar, calls me this morning en route to a wedding reception in Manitowoc, Wisconsin, and he tells me that back in January, after the Packers' loss to the Giants in the NFC Championship, he called WTMJ in Milwaukee to chime in on whether or not Brett will return to the Packers for a 17th season. Tom gets on the air and states (paraphrasing), "Favre is a tragic hero. This situation - Favre's future with the Packers - can ONLY result in tragedy."

Why he thought that at the time I do not know. But if you take into consideration everything that's happened in Brett's life - car accident while at Southern Mississippi, his father's death, his grandmother's death, his brother-in-law's death, his wife's breast cancer, his childhood home swept away during Hurricane Katrina, various injuries - and all the drama associated with "will he or won't he retire", Brett Favre is certainly a tragic hero. An astute call, my friend.

© Copyright 2007 Janis Mertin

As an actor, I'm familiar with the tragic hero character in literature and theater. Aristotle once said that "A man cannot become a hero until he can see the root of his own downfall." An Aristotelian tragic hero must possess specific characteristics, included below:

1) Nobility or wisdom.

2) A reversal of fortune. The discovery or recognition that the reversal was brought about by the hero's own actions. The audience must feel pity and fear (fear that it could have been them) (catharsis) for the character.

3) Initially, the tragic hero should be neither better nor worse morally than normal people, in order to allow the audience to identify with him.

4) This also introduces pity, which is crucial in tragedy, for if the hero were perfect we would either be outraged with his fate or not especially care due to his ideological superiority. Eventually the Aristotelian tragic hero dies a tragic death, having fallen from great heights and having made an irreversible mistake.

5) The hero must courageously accept his or her death with honor.

Other common traits characteristic of a tragic hero:
The hero is led to his downfall due to hubris, or excessive pride.
The hero must be doomed from the start, but bears no responsibility for possessing his flaw.
The hero must have discovered his fate by his own actions, not by things happening to him.
The hero must see and understand his doom, and that his fate was revealed by his own actions.
The hero's story should arouse fear and empathy.
The hero must be intelligent enough to have the opportunity to learn from his mistakes.
The hero must be faced with a very serious decision.
The suffering of the hero must have meaning.

Certainly, much of this can be attributed to Brett Favre. And certainly, much of this can be attributed to the Green Bay Packer organization and GM Ted Thompson. There's also another definition that goes hand-in-hand with this subject - that of tragic virtue, which is an alternative view of the tragic hero, especially in Renaissance British literature, one in which he or she possesses a tragic virtue. In this paradigm the hero exhibits traits that would under other conditions be considered desirable but due to external circumstances cause their eventual undoing. For example, Shakespeare's character Hamlet is often criticized for his contemplative nature. Hamlet's failure to act is cited as his tragic flaw.

Whether you're a Packer fan, a Favre fan, an NFL fan or a sports fan, you can see the relevance of the tragic hero in the Brett Favre/Packers clusterfuck. Perhaps instead of jumping down Favre's throat for being egotistical, controlling and waffling on his retirement (all characteristics that can be attributed to the Packer organization as well), you can begin to see that it's not so much an issue of laying blame as it is a result of Brett Favre just being Brett Favre - and everything that goes along with being one of the most prolific players/QB's in the history of the NFL, for one of the most storied franchises in the NFL. I think of myself as a person whose judge of character is almost flawless; and, though Favre may, in fact, be a tragic character, I will choose to have him, warts and flaws in all, in my corner 100% of the time.

The Packer organization should feel the same.


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Saturday, February 2, 2008

Packy, You Will Be Missed

Packy is in Heaven.

Packy belonged to my best friend Tom and his wife, Denise and their two sons, Jacob and Joseph. She was terribly sick and passed away a couple weeks ago at the age of 4. She loved Favre and the Packers (thus, her name) and thankfully she got to see them play in the NFC Championship Game this year one last time.

She passed away the next day.

Packy was one of those Frasier-terriers who jumped and flew all over the house and yard at 90 mph. Definately kept you on your toes. She was also an expert at getting into zipped up briefcases. I was a "victim" of her clandestine operations TWICE - both at Christmas while I was in Wheaton, IL visiting the Kazar's. TWICE she unzipped my briefcase, sniffing out the coffee given to me by my mother, ripping open the bag and spreading coffee all over the bed and floor. TWICE.

Awe, Packy. I will miss you. If I had a thousand Starbuck's Coffee One Pound'ers I'd given them all to you. YOU are irreplaceable.


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